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The Relationship Compatibility Platform
Discover Your
ConneXion
Before You Invest Your Time or Your Heart.
The compatibility assessment for dating, friendships, family, and professional relationships. See how two people align in communication, intimacy, emotional needs, conflict style, and relationship expectations — in about 5 minutes.
No credit card required • First ConneXion Check included • Private by design
ConneXion Results: XY / YX
For Every ConneXion
Every Important Relationship Follows a Pattern.
❣️
Romantic Relationships
Know where you naturally align—and where friction is most likely to emerge.
🫶
Friendships
See why some friendships feel effortless while others become draining.
🏡
Family Relationships
Recognize patterns in spouses, parents, children, siblings, and extended family members.
💼
Work & School Relationships
Learn how communication styles influence teamwork, leadership, conflict, and collaboration.
Reveal · Recognize · Connect
Reveal Your ConneXion With Anyone Who Matters.
Because insight changes relationships.
Send a private invitation to someone who matters to you. Complete your assessments independently and see where you naturally align, where your needs differ, and how those differences shape communication, conflict, intimacy, and long-term compatibility — before investing your time, your heart, or your future.
Communication AlignmentStrong
ConneXion NeedsAligned
Conflict RiskLow
Digital CompatibilityIn Sync
Relationship SkillsGrowing
WHY XY CONNEXION®
See the Pattern.
Understand the Person.
Strengthen the Relationship.
The XY ConneXion® assessment reveals how two people naturally align in communication, intimacy, emotional needs, conflict style, and relationship expectations—so you can stop guessing and start seeing the people who matter most more clearly. Your answers remain private, and only the insights you choose to share are visible to the person you invite.
How it works
How XY ConneXion® Works
1
Take the Assessment
Answer brief questions about your communication, connection, intimacy, conflict, and relational needs.
2
Invite Someone
Send a private ConneXion link to a romantic interest, friend, classmate, coworker, family member, or partner.
3
Compare Your ConneXion
See your ConneXion Score, alignment areas, growth areas, and personalized relationship insights.
4
Build Better Relationships
Use your results to start better conversations, reduce misunderstandings, and deepen connection.
Your Results
What's Your ConneXion Type?
Discover which of the four Interactive Relationship Personalities best reflects how you naturally connect with others.
XX
High Communication + High Intimacy
Needs deep talks and close emotional connection.
XY
High Communication + Low Intimacy
Loves to talk it out, keeps emotional space.
YX
Low Communication + High Intimacy
Bonds through closeness more than words.
YY
Low Communication + Low Intimacy
Values independence and quiet companionship.
The letters represent your communication and intimacy needs — and help explain how two people may naturally connect, complement one another, or experience friction.
Real Stories. Real ConneXions.
How people used XY ConneXion® to see the relationships that matter most clearly.
★★★★★
"My fiancé and I thought we had different values. XY ConneXion® showed us we actually communicated completely differently. It suggested we acquire better communication skills and changed how we approached every disagreement."
AP
Alex & Priya
Engaged · 2 years
★★★★★
"I sent an XY ConneXion® invitation to my daughter. Within minutes we finally understood why we'd been misunderstanding each other for years."
RM
Renee M.
Mother & Daughter
★★★★★
"The XY ConneXion® report explained arguments we'd been having for over a year and indicated that we had a deficit in Conflict Resolution Skills."
SJ
Sarah & James
Married · 4 years
★★★★★
"My teenage son and I stopped taking each other personally after seeing our XY ConneXion® results."
DT
David T.
Father & Son
★★★★★
"My business partner and I uncovered why meetings kept ending in frustration — the same conflict was repeating in a loop."
MC
Maya & Chen
Co-founders
Pricing
Choose Your ConneXion Plan
Start free. Upgrade when you want more ConneXion Checks and deeper compatibility insights for the people who matter most.
Enjoy 2026 Pricing — Introductory Rates for Our Launch Year
Bring people together through meaningful ConneXions.
ConneXion Events help participants explore communication styles, relationship patterns, compatibility, and shared strengths within a group.
Perfect for
🏢Businesses & Workplaces
🎓Universities & College Classes
🎉Parties & Social Gatherings
👨👩👧Family Reunions
⛪Churches & Small Groups
🤝Conferences & Networking Events
Custom group experiences available.
FAQ
Common questions
Is XY ConneXion® just another dating app?+
No. XY ConneXion® can be used for dating, friendships, family relationships, classmates, coworkers, roommates, and partners. Dating is one use case, but the platform is designed to help people see any important relationship clearly.
What is an XY ConneXion® Score?+
Your XY ConneXion® Score shows how two people align across communication, intimacy, conflict risk, and relationship skills — so you can see where you're compatible before investing your time or your heart.
Can I use it with a friend or family member?+
Yes. You can invite anyone you want to know better.
Is my data private?+
Yes. Your answers are private, and results are only shared in the ConneXion report with the person you choose to invite.
How long does it take?+
Most users complete the assessment in about 5 minutes.
See Every Relationship Through a New Lens.
Whether you're dating, building friendships, strengthening family, or improving teamwork, ConneXion helps you see the people who matter most clearly.
No credit card required • First ConneXion Check included • Private by design
XY ConneXion®
RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT DISCLAIMER
Please Read Before Using XY ConneXion
XY ConneXion® is designed to help individuals and couples better understand relationship needs, communication, intimacy, compatibility, and interpersonal dynamics.
Our assessments, XY ConneXion Blueprint™, ConneXion Checks, compatibility results, reports, educational materials, and related tools are intended to provide educational information and relationship insight.
Relationship Results Are Insights, Not Predictions
Relationships are complex. They are influenced by personality, experience, behavior, values, circumstances, choices, development, communication, life events, and numerous other factors that cannot be completely measured or predicted by an assessment.
XY ConneXion results may identify areas of similarity, difference, alignment, or potential challenge between individuals.
They should be viewed as a source of insight—not as a prediction or determination of whether a relationship will succeed, fail, begin, continue, or end.
A high degree of measured alignment or compatibility does not guarantee that a relationship will be successful, healthy, safe, or lasting.
Likewise, differences identified through XY ConneXion do not mean that two people are incompatible or that their relationship cannot be healthy, meaningful, or successful.
Not Professional or Clinical Advice
XY ConneXion assessments and automated results do not constitute psychological diagnosis, psychotherapy, psychiatric or medical advice, legal advice, or other individualized professional advice.
They are not intended to replace professional evaluation, counseling, therapy, diagnosis, treatment, or advice when such services are appropriate.
Participation in an educational or coaching service offered through XY ConneXion does not by itself establish a psychotherapist-patient or other licensed professional treatment relationship.
Your Decisions Remain Your Own
XY ConneXion should be used as one source of information in understanding relationships.
Decisions about whether to date, marry, separate, reconcile, establish or end a friendship, select a roommate, enter a business relationship, make parenting decisions, hire or work with another person, or otherwise begin, maintain, change, or end a relationship should not be made solely on the basis of an XY ConneXion result.
Users remain responsible for their own decisions and actions.
Safety and Serious Relationship Concerns
XY ConneXion is not a safety assessment or background-check service.
It is not designed to identify or rule out domestic violence, abuse, coercive control, stalking, exploitation, threats, dangerousness, criminal conduct, dishonesty, or other serious safety concerns.
A favorable XY ConneXion result should never be interpreted as evidence that another person is safe or trustworthy.
If you believe you or another person may be in immediate danger, contact appropriate emergency services.
If you are experiencing abuse, serious psychological distress, or another significant relationship or mental-health concern, consider seeking assistance from an appropriately qualified professional or relevant support service.
No Guarantee
While XY ConneXion is designed to provide meaningful relationship insight, no relationship assessment can predict human behavior or guarantee relationship outcomes.
By using XY ConneXion, you acknowledge the inherent limitations of relationship assessment and agree to consider your results as informational and educational insight rather than a definitive determination about another person or relationship.
XY ConneXion®
PRIVACY POLICY
Last Updated: August 2026
1. Information We Collect
Depending upon how you use XY ConneXion, we may collect:
Account and identifying information:
Name
Email address
Account credentials
Information you voluntarily provide when communicating with us.
Assessment and relationship information:
Assessment responses
Communication preferences and needs
Intimacy preferences and needs
Relationship preferences
XY ConneXion profile or Blueprint information
ConneXion Check information
Compatibility and relationship results
Saved ConneXion results or histories.
Transaction information:
Subscription level
Purchase amount
Payment status
Transaction identifier
Subscription or renewal status.
Technical and usage information:
IP address
Browser type
Device type
Operating system
Access times
Referring pages
Interactions with our Services.
We seek to collect only information reasonably necessary to provide, secure, administer, and improve the Services.
2. Assessment and Relationship Information
XY ConneXion is a relationship-assessment platform. Information you voluntarily provide may concern communication, intimacy, emotional needs, relationship preferences, interpersonal experiences, or other relationship characteristics.
We use this information to provide the features requested by users, including assessments, XY ConneXion Blueprint™ information, ConneXion Checks, compatibility information, reports, and related educational insights.
Some of this information may be personal or sensitive in nature. Users should provide only information they are comfortable submitting to the platform.
3. ConneXion Checks With Other People
Certain XY ConneXion features allow participating individuals to compare aspects of their respective assessment information.
When you voluntarily initiate, accept, or participate in a ConneXion Check, certain results or relationship insights may be made available to the other participating person as necessary to provide the requested comparison.
Your participation in a ConneXion Check therefore involves sharing certain resulting compatibility or relationship information with the person participating in that ConneXion with you.
Users should carefully consider whom they invite or authorize to participate.
4. How We Use Information
We may use personal information to:
Establish and maintain accounts
Administer assessments
Create XY ConneXion Blueprint™ information
Perform ConneXion Checks
Generate reports and relationship insights
Save results where applicable
Provide subscriptions and Services
Process and administer transactions
Provide customer support
Communicate about accounts and Services
Maintain security and prevent fraud
Diagnose technical problems
Improve platform functionality
Understand aggregated usage patterns
Comply with applicable legal obligations
5. Payment Processing — PayPal
Payments for paid XY ConneXion Services are processed through PayPal.
When you make a payment, PayPal may independently collect and process payment-card, bank-account, billing, transaction, device, identity, fraud-prevention, and other information according to the services you use and PayPal’s own privacy practices.
XY ConneXion does not directly receive or store complete payment-card numbers processed by PayPal.
We may receive information needed to administer your transaction or subscription, including purchase amount, payment status, transaction identifier, subscription status, and similar transaction information.
PayPal’s merchant data-protection terms specifically contemplate merchants informing customers that PayPal independently processes certain customer and payment data.
Review PayPal's Privacy Statement
6. Hosting, Email and Data Infrastructure — GoDaddy
XY ConneXion uses GoDaddy for website hosting, email, and related technology infrastructure.
Information transmitted to or maintained through XY ConneXion may therefore be processed or stored on infrastructure provided by GoDaddy where applicable to the particular Service.
[DEVELOPER CONFIRMATION REQUIRED BEFORE LAUNCH: Confirm whether XY ConneXion account information, assessment responses, XY ConneXion Blueprint™ data, ConneXion Checks, and saved results/history are stored within GoDaddy infrastructure. Once confirmed, this paragraph should be updated to state that expressly.]
GoDaddy’s current hosting terms contemplate website/server content being transmitted through or stored on its servers and place security and regulatory responsibilities on the customer operating the hosted service.
GoDaddy Privacy Notice
7. Other Service Providers
We may use other service providers as reasonably necessary to operate XY ConneXion, including providers assisting with:
Website functionality
Security
Analytics
Communications
Customer support
Technical services
Such providers may process information necessary to perform services for us, subject to applicable contractual obligations and law.
8. We Do Not Sell Customer Lists
XY ConneXion does not sell or rent its customer lists.
If XY ConneXion’s data practices change in a manner that constitutes the “sale” or “sharing” of personal information under an applicable privacy law, we will provide disclosures and choices required by that law.
9. Cookies and Similar Technologies
XY ConneXion and service providers supporting the platform may use cookies and similar technologies for functions such as:
Authentication
Maintaining sessions
Remembering preferences
Security
Fraud prevention
Measuring website performance
Understanding how Services are used
If XY ConneXion uses advertising, tracking, or cross-context behavioral advertising technologies requiring additional disclosure or consent, appropriate mechanisms will be implemented as required by applicable law.
10. Security
XY ConneXion uses reasonable administrative, technical, and organizational safeguards designed to protect personal information.
However, no Internet transmission, electronic storage system, or security measure can guarantee absolute security.
Users are responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of their account credentials.
11. Data Retention
We retain personal information for as long as reasonably necessary to:
Provide the Services
Maintain accounts
Administer subscriptions
Satisfy legitimate business purposes
Comply with legal requirements
Resolve disputes
Prevent fraud
Enforce agreements
Specific XY ConneXion products may have stated retention periods for certain results or features.
Deletion of an account or expiration of a subscription does not necessarily require immediate deletion of every record where retention is reasonably necessary or legally required.
12. Your Privacy Rights
Depending upon your residence and applicable law, you may have rights regarding your personal information, which may include the ability to request access, correction, or deletion and to exercise other privacy choices.
Where the California Consumer Privacy Act applies, California consumers have rights that include:
Rights to know
Rights to delete
Rights to correct
Rights to opt out of sale/sharing
Rights to limit certain uses of sensitive personal information
Rights to be free from discrimination for exercising applicable privacy rights
XY ConneXion will honor applicable privacy rights as required by law.
Requests may be submitted to: info@xyconnexion.com
We may take reasonable steps to verify the identity of a person submitting a request.
13. Children and Age Restrictions
XY ConneXion is intended for adults age 18 and older.
Individuals under 18 are not permitted to:
Create accounts
Complete XY ConneXion assessments
Participate in ConneXion Checks
Otherwise use Services intended for registered users
We do not knowingly collect personal information from individuals under 18 through those Services.
If we learn that we have collected personal information from a person under 18 in violation of this policy, we will take reasonable steps to address the situation and delete the information where appropriate.
14. Email Communications
We may send transactional communications concerning accounts, assessment activity, purchases, subscriptions, security, or other Services.
Where permitted, we may also send promotional or informational communications.
Users may unsubscribe from marketing communications using the unsubscribe mechanism contained in those messages.
Unsubscribing from marketing messages does not necessarily prevent communications necessary to administer an active account, transaction, or Service.
15. Disclosure Required by Law or for Protection
We may disclose personal information when we reasonably believe disclosure is necessary to:
Comply with applicable law or valid legal process
Protect our legal rights
Investigate fraud or security incidents
Protect the security of the Services
Protect users or other persons
Address an emergency involving safety
16. Business Transfers
If XY ConneXion is involved in a merger, acquisition, financing, reorganization, sale of assets, or similar business transaction, information may be transferred as part of that transaction subject to applicable law and appropriate protections.
17. External Links
XY ConneXion may link to third-party websites or services.
We are not responsible for the privacy practices of unaffiliated third parties. Users should review the privacy policies of third-party services they choose to use.
18. Changes to This Privacy Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy as the Services, technologies, or legal requirements change.
The current version will display the date it was last updated.
Where required by law, we will provide additional notice or obtain consent before implementing material changes.
Contact Us
XY ConneXion
25925 Barton Road, 948
Loma Linda, CA 92354
Email: info@xyconnexion.com
XY ConneXion®
TERMS OF USE
Last Updated: August 2026
1. Eligibility — Adults 18 and Older
XY ConneXion is intended for individuals 18 years of age or older.
By creating an account, completing an assessment, or otherwise using the Services, you represent that you are at least 18 years old and legally capable of agreeing to these Terms.
2. What XY ConneXion Provides
XY ConneXion is a relationship education and assessment platform designed to help people better understand relationship needs, communication, intimacy, compatibility, and interpersonal dynamics.
Depending upon the Service selected, XY ConneXion may provide:
XY ConneXion Assessments
Personal ConneXions™
Couples ConneXion™
XY ConneXion Blueprint™ information
ConneXion Checks
Compatibility and relationship reports
Saved ConneXion results or histories
Educational relationship resources
Relationship-development programs
Coaching or other related services where separately offered
Features and Services may be modified, added, or discontinued from time to time.
3. One Assessment. Multiple ConneXions.
Certain XY ConneXion Services are designed to allow an individual to complete an assessment and subsequently use the resulting profile to explore ConneXion with other participating users without necessarily retaking the assessment for each new ConneXion.
Access to ConneXion Checks, saved results, ConneXion histories, reports, or other features may vary according to the user’s selected plan or subscription.
4. Accounts and Account Security
You agree to provide accurate, current, and complete information when creating and maintaining your account.
You are responsible for protecting your account credentials and for activity occurring through your account.
You may not:
Impersonate another person
Complete an assessment while pretending to be another person
Access another person’s account without authorization
Obtain or distribute another user’s private results without authorization
Use XY ConneXion to harass, threaten, exploit, deceive, or harm another person
5. Assessment and ConneXion Results
XY ConneXion results are generated from information supplied by users and the methodologies incorporated into the XY ConneXion system.
Results are intended to help users identify and better understand potential similarities, differences, relationship needs, and interpersonal dynamics.
XY ConneXion assessments, profiles, compatibility information, ConneXion Checks, Blueprints, reports, and other results are intended to provide relationship insight and educational information. They should be viewed as a source of insight—not as a prediction or determination of whether a relationship will succeed, fail, begin, continue, or end.
Human relationships are affected by circumstances, experiences, choices, behaviors, values, and other factors that no assessment can fully measure or predict.
Users remain responsible for their own relationship decisions.
6. No Guarantee of Compatibility or Relationship Outcomes
XY ConneXion does not guarantee compatibility or any particular relationship outcome.
A high degree of measured alignment does not guarantee that a relationship will be successful, healthy, safe, or lasting.
Similarly, differences identified by XY ConneXion do not establish that individuals are incompatible or that a relationship will be unsuccessful.
XY ConneXion results should be considered one source of information among the many factors relevant to understanding another person or relationship.
7. Not Professional or Clinical Advice
Unless expressly stated in connection with a separately contracted professional service, XY ConneXion assessments, automated reports, educational materials, Blueprints, compatibility results, and ConneXion Checks are provided for educational and informational purposes.
They do not constitute psychological diagnosis, psychotherapy, psychiatric or medical treatment, legal advice, or other individualized professional advice.
XY ConneXion results should not substitute for professional evaluation, counseling, diagnosis, treatment, or advice when such assistance is appropriate.
Participation in an educational or coaching service through XY ConneXion does not by itself establish a psychotherapist-patient, physician-patient, attorney-client, or similar professional relationship.
8. Safety
XY ConneXion is not a safety-screening tool.
It is not designed to determine whether another person is trustworthy or to detect or rule out abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, stalking, exploitation, threats, dangerousness, or criminal behavior.
A favorable XY ConneXion result should never be interpreted as evidence that another person is safe or trustworthy.
If you believe you or another person is in immediate danger, contact appropriate emergency services or other appropriate resources rather than relying upon XY ConneXion.
9. Paid Services and Subscriptions
XY ConneXion may offer free and paid Services.
Features available under each plan—including the number of ConneXion Checks, saved results, reports, histories, educational resources, or other benefits—will be described at the time of purchase.
Prices and plan features may change from time to time.
Any applicable recurring billing or automatic-renewal terms will be disclosed during the purchase process as required by applicable law.
10. Payment Processing
Payments for paid XY ConneXion Services are processed through PayPal.
PayPal may independently collect and process payment, financial, billing, fraud-prevention, and transaction information in accordance with its own terms and privacy practices. PayPal’s payment-processing documentation specifically recognizes its independent processing of certain customer and transaction information.
XY ConneXion does not directly store complete credit- or debit-card numbers processed by PayPal.
We may receive transaction-related information necessary to administer purchases and subscriptions, such as payment status, purchase amount, transaction identifiers, and subscription status.
PayPal Privacy Statement
11. Cancellation and Refunds
Users may cancel recurring subscriptions in accordance with the cancellation procedures associated with their account or payment method.
Unless otherwise required by law, cancellation stops future renewals but does not automatically entitle the user to a refund of amounts already paid.
Because XY ConneXion provides digital assessments, reports, intellectual property, educational materials, and other digital Services that may become accessible immediately following purchase or activation, purchases are generally non-refundable after access or activation except where otherwise stated or required by applicable law.
Nothing in this section limits any cancellation, refund, or consumer right that cannot lawfully be waived.
12. Intellectual Property
XY ConneXion’s names, trademarks, assessment questions, scoring methodologies, algorithms, reports, frameworks, protocols, educational materials, written content, graphics, software, design elements, and related intellectual property are owned by or licensed to XY ConneXion and are protected by applicable intellectual-property laws.
Use of the Services grants you a limited personal right to use the Services as intended. It does not transfer ownership of XY ConneXion intellectual property.
You may not:
Reproduce, sell, publish, license
Systematically extract
Reverse engineer
Commercially exploit
Create derivative commercial products from proprietary XY ConneXion materials without authorization
13. Acceptable Use
You may not use the Services to:
Violate applicable law
Commit fraud or deception
Harass, threaten, or harm another person
Obtain unauthorized access to accounts or information
Manipulate or falsify assessment responses or results
Scrape or systematically extract proprietary materials
Disrupt or compromise platform security
Infringe upon XY ConneXion’s or another person’s intellectual-property or privacy rights
14. Suspension or Termination
XY ConneXion may reasonably suspend, restrict, or terminate access when necessary to protect users, the platform, intellectual property, security, or other persons, including in response to suspected fraud, unlawful conduct, security threats, misuse of the Services, or material violations of these Terms.
15. Third-Party Services
XY ConneXion relies upon third-party technology and service providers.
These may include PayPal for payment processing and GoDaddy for hosting, email, and related infrastructure.
Use of third-party services may also be subject to those providers’ respective terms and privacy policies.
16. Disclaimer of Warranties
To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, the Services are provided on an “as available” basis.
XY ConneXion does not warrant that the Services will always be uninterrupted or error-free, nor does it warrant any particular personal, compatibility, or relationship outcome.
Nothing in these Terms excludes warranties or consumer protections that cannot lawfully be excluded.
17. Limitation of Liability
To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, XY ConneXion and its owners, affiliates, officers, employees, contractors, and service providers will not be liable for indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or similar damages resulting from use of or reliance upon the Services.
Nothing in these Terms limits or excludes liability that cannot lawfully be limited or excluded.
18. Changes to These Terms
XY ConneXion may update these Terms periodically.
The current version will display its “Last Updated” date. Additional notice or consent will be provided when required by applicable law.
19. Governing Law
These Terms are governed by applicable federal law and the laws of the State of California, without regard to conflict-of-law principles, except to the extent applicable law requires otherwise.
Contact Us
XY ConneXion
25925 Barton Road, 948
Loma Linda, CA 92354
Email: info@xyconnexion.com
XY ConneXion®
Welcome to Your XY Relational Needs Profile™
You’re about to complete a short assessment designed to help you understand your natural relational needs and how they may compare with the needs of others.
There are no right or wrong answers. Simply choose the response that best reflects you.
38 questions • About 10 minutes • Take it once
What Are X and Y?
X — Higher Relational Need
Tends to want more connection, responsiveness, reassurance, or closeness.
Y — Lower Relational Need
Tends to need less frequency or intensity in these same areas.
A ConneXion is a meaningful bond between two people. It reflects how well individuals align in communication, emotional connection, relationship needs, conflict style, and interpersonal expectations.
ConneXions can exist between:
Romantic partners
Friends
Family members
Classmates
Coworkers
Business partners
Roommates
The goal is not simply to identify similarity, but to better recognize compatibility, complementary strengths, and areas that may require greater awareness.